Frequently Asked Questions

If you are not currently a registered member and would like some support or advice, please get in touch using the form below.</p><p>
Alternatively, if you are a registered member, please use the forums to seek support or advice. The ExtremeWilly admin team are very active members of the site and will respond as soon as we can. You can also message us privately using your messaging function.

This site is strictly for men with an erect penis length of less than 11 cm or more than 15cm, or a flaccid length of less than 8cm or more than 4 inches. If your penis size is in between, this isn’t the site for you. Alternatively, if you are someone who loves a miniwilly, or a huge dick, you are welcome to join and meet some of our amazing specimens. If you think you are at the seriously extreme ends of these spectrums, you may qualify for Elite membership.

Measurement is done as follows:

All length measurements should be made from the pubic bone to the tip of the glans on the top side of the penis. Any fat covering the pubic bone should be compressed before measurement, and any additional length provided by foreskin should not be counted. Circumference should be measured at the base of the penis or around the middle of the shaft.

We do not currently have restrictions on penis circumference (girth) or a way to search for a girth measurement specifically. If this is something you would like to see, let us know in the forums.

If your erect penis length is less than 4 inches or more than 16.5cm, or your flaccid length is less than 7cm or more than 4.5 inches, you are eligible for Elite Membership.

Firstly, and most importantly, you get the kudos of being one of our most special members. Secondly, you get an Elite Member badge on your profile.

Just verify your elite length in the usual way.

And congratulations. Your penis is super special.

Our verification service persuades people viewing your profile that what they see is what they get. It works as follows:


Submit two images. One must be of your penis being measured. The other must be of your penis, with a piece of paper above/next to it, with “” written on it.


Women must write “” on a piece of paper and photograph themselves holding it. The shot must include their body, from neck to waist, either nude, or wearing clothes that clearly show the female form underneath.


Use the contact form below to email your images, selecting “Verification” in the subject dropdown. It may take up to 72 hours to confirm the validity of your images and receive verified status. You may also upload your media to your media gallery, mark them as private (if you so choose) and advise us accordingly.

We have strict rules concerning your use of this site. They can be read HERE.

However, we understand that sometimes things can be said that were not intended to cause offence, whilst being upsetting in nature. We ask that our members consider and respect this. We would not consider such communication a breach unless we can show that the other member ‘intended’ to cause such offence.

If you believe that a member has breached the acceptable use policy, please cease all communication with that member. There is a block button on every members profile which you can use to do this. Politely inform the member that you do not wish to communicate with them and that further unwanted messages will be reported. If the member continues to breach the policy, then please get in touch with us below. Depending on the nature of the breach, we may ask you to attempt to resolve the disagreement yourself. We would not expect you to do this for gross breaches of the policy.

Submission of certain types of images will result in the image being rejected by our moderators, and these types are:

1. Images of children, pornographic or not.

2. Images of famous people.

3. Images of professionally photographed models.

If you are the model, huge congratulations! You will need to verify before uploading your portfolio images so we know you are who you say you are. Also, if you are a professional model, please let us know anyway. It would be good to work with you.

4. Any type of advertising, unless it is done as an obvious joke or parody.

If you would like to advertise on this site, you’d be very welcome to get in touch with us using the form below.

5. Any image of a person other than yourself, that people might reasonably mistake for you, unless done as an obvious joke or parody.

7. Any image showing faeces, urine, anal gaping, cuckolding, or anything a normal person would find generally repulsive. Just use your common sense. If you’re in doubt, please send us a message below for further guidance.

Because profile pictures may be shown on publicly accessible parts of the site, such as the homepage or as part of our featured members system, nudity is not permitted within profile pictures.

Profile pictures may be deleted without warning.

Sadly, because of the nature of this site, some people may seek to harass others by signing them up without their knowledge. This causes them to receive a confirmation email from ExtremeWilly. Our Terms and Conditions of Use expressly forbid this and make clear that we will cooperate with local law enforcement agencies to identify the perpetrator.

If this happens to you, please get in touch. In the first instance, we will ban that person from accessing this site.

We have had some fantastic feedback so far via email. We really do encourage feedback from our members as we want to grow our community and want your experience of ExtremeWilly to be a safe, efficient and seamless one.

However, in keeping with our community ethos, we now encourage all feedback to be given using the relevant forum. this means that we have a record of your suggestions and can update everyone on their progress. It also allows other members to join in and where necessary, add their support to your site suggestions.

We do not tolerate fake profiles. If you pretend to be a man or woman, when you aren’t, you will be suspended. If you use photos of other people/models or you upload stolen photos, you will be suspended.

It is acceptable to upload photos that are clearly fake/comical in nature. The test is whether the image is intended to deceive another member of our community.

If your pictures are of your particularly small or large penis, we strongly recommend using the verification service. Sometimes, your penis may look too good to be true. So let us promise other members that it is beautifully real.

If you have been with us some time, or were verified previously, drop us a quick message below. Don’t worry, we’ll get it sorted.

If you are unable to login, you may have been suspended. You should see a warning to that effect on the login screen.

Use the contact form below (changing the subject to “What have I done wrong?”) to contact us. It may be obvious to you why the suspension was put in place. In your email, it is recommended that you give some reasons and ways you intend to improve the situation.

Alternatively, if you no longer wish to be a part of the community, please let us know, and we will delete ALL your data from this site.

ExtremeWilly is a rapidly growing online community, that is now able to offer a range of advertising options (banner ads, text ads, contextual ads, etc…) to selected organisations.

If you would like more information, please get in contact below.

We are sorry to see you go! Please leave some feedback on our forums before the end of your final visit, so we can learn why you are leaving, and how we can improve the experience for our remaining members.

If you must go, you can delete your account from your profile page, under ‘settings’.

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